I'm interested in switching to Linux/BSD of some kind, but no one distro jumps out at me. A quick biography for context:
I am a high school student who's been using Windows since early childhood, and currently runs XP on desktop and OS X on Macbook. I am a relatively advanced Windows power user who probably plays with system settings and the registry too much, but is also well-informed on system security. I use Firefox and OpenOffice. I'm a little obsessive-compulsive when it comes to organizing my files, deleting my family's unused desktop icons, disabling useless processes, and that sort of thing. I am teaching myself Java but am still a beginner, and I have dabbled with the command-line but am not experienced with it.
I have tried Ubuntu on LiveCD and was not immediately impressed. The focus for both Ubuntu, its derivatives, and GNOME seems to be *usability*. However, almost on principle, I would rather have a system where the focus is *functionality*. Compatibility is also nice as long as we're using -lity nouns. I am not afraid of the command-line when it is more effective for a particular task. Though I appreciate open source projects, I have no fundamental commitment to them, and will gladly use proprietary freeware if I find it more useful. No bonus points from me if the system is a Windows clone; in fact, I'll be suspicious whether the interface was chosen for its inherent merits. I intend to dual-boot with XP.
I would appreciate being able to protect the operating system as its own partition, and load the entire thing to RAM on startup. That style of computing appeals to me. I like being given choices rather than cookie-cutter solutions.
Probably the one deciding factor for me, though, is this: I strongly dislike the Windows philosophy of *hide information from the user to avoid confusing them*.
Given this profile, what OS/distro/DE configurations would you suggest for me to try?
I realize I'm asking this at a site devoted to one particular distro, but I have heard that the Ubuntu Forums are unparalleled in the field for their helpfulness.