pgibson said: I love Xubuntu too --- but having come from WinXP not too long ago and --- after almost a year of fooling with about 15 distros --- I wouldn't recommend it as a first distro. It's just a bit too different and spartan.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a big fan of Xubuntu. I love it's combination of looks and power. l run it on my old Dell 4100 and may run it on the family's old Micron as a file sharing server hub thingy. My 14 year-old daughter runs Mint XFCE on her old thinkpad (X/Ubuntu 8.04 couldn't find/use her wireless dongle) and adores the "mousy."
It's not that Windows doesn't have it's own quirks and an attendant learning curve, but users from Windows are accustomed, I think, to a lot of hand-holding from the OS. It's a very see-point-click kind of relationship and a Linux OS will be more favored, I think, by a former WinUser if it, too, offers as an intuitive see-point-click GUI as possible.
(I've yet to figure out how to access the other drive partitions using Thunar, for example ... but with Ubuntu's Nautilus they just show up. I can see 'em, point at 'em, and click on 'em. I imagine that it's very possible to make Thunar display the other drive partitions ... but, because of my particular blend of idiocy and ignorance, it's just not as readily apparent as to how, I'm afraid.)
The longer a new WinUser can be kept from the terminal, the better, I believe.
I made the same decision as EzEral. I chose Ubuntu 8.10 for my Dell laptop and have been happy so far. In addition to Ubuntu 8.10, the other two distros I might recommend to someone wanting to try out the Linux waters would be Simply Mepis and PCLOS 2007. Indeed, I used the PCLOS 2007 Live disk to access the files on my old, crashed XP hard drive that I plug in through the USB port (X/Ubuntu balk and return "Error org.freedesktop.DBus.Error.NoReply) before I discovered Kubuntu 8.10 could as well. I'm sure this could be fixed, but I'd rather get on with other things, and I can get around it with a see-point-click fix. Yay!
In Xubuntu you have to manually mount the partitions you want. I haven't testing adding a shortcut to the panel like nautilus has.
If I manually mount a partition somewhere other than /media/disk in Ubuntu, nautilus won't have the shortcut. So maybe try mounting there?