Exactly, and the first step is to treat them with equal respect so perhaps drop the "n00b"?
I dont see any particular disrespect in the use of the term nOOb. In many respects, even though I have been using various Linux distros since RH8, I am still a nOOb. There are certain that I simply as yet have no interest. There are others that I am just gaining an interest like programming and security/hacking. Well you get the idea.
I think it was the EEPC had similar problems,
I have never had any issues with my eee 701. I will admit however that mine was not one of those that came with the Linux version. Mine came with the Japanese version of XP. With in 2 hours of receiving(I just had to play with the Japanese version) it I had 8.04 installed and the next day I installed the EEE version of 8.04. I had no problems doing anything I wanted to do with either version.
It is a kernel, yes and freeware, and the roots of many distros--but it is for teaching oneself more about *nix and computing
IF and only if that is what you want to do. I have installed Ubuntu for many people. Most just want what they want to do to work, My Wife included. She wants to turn her computer on, read her emails, send one occasionally, go to the sites she wants, look at pictures occasionally. Just the normal stuff. She does not care if she has a revolving cube on her desk top. She does not care if she has flames, or dancing men, or what ever. She want to do what she wants to do.
However she is jazzed when ever I learn a new trick with Ubuntu. Will she ever do it? Probably not. But she is jazzed that I can do it because, That Is what I do.
Her sister is the same. All she cares about is that she can get on line and go to her nascar and dating sites with out it freezing up. Her sister cannot even grasp the thought of just shutting down and restarting to get out of a freeze up.
Of course windows has problems. But we do too.
True, but, (there is always a but isn't there) In my case since I installed Ubuntu on My Wifes computer I have not heard anything like " I just opened my email and it froze" or I just went to this site and it won't do anything. that was 3.5 years ago. And now even she tells her sister, her neice, and others , " well ,if you would try Linux you would not have that problem. I havent had a virus in over 3 years.
average Joe user starts to use it.
Define > average Joe user. I dont think there is such an animal. Each and every one of Us chose to use this OS for different reasons. I use it because it does what I want. On my EEE it does somethings better than a fullsize laptop. My wife uses it because it does what she wants with out problems. The kids I have installed it for love the games, educational and otherwise. Each person that uses Ubuntu or any flavor of Linux does so for their own reasons. That is one of the core tenets of Linux. Choice.
I don't understand why we should put up with instability in Linux and not put up with it in Windows.
But you do put up with it in Windows. The freezing, lost work, things that just disappear into the ethernet, never to be seen again. But all this and more is just blown off as " just windows". It is accepted with the " well I guess I will just have to scratch my A**, rub my nose, and hop up and down on one foot" or what ever the requisite ceremony is for that particular application.
I on the other hand simply recite the magic words ( Synaptic Package manager), select the magic of the day. ( search, mark for install, apply) and " bobs your uncle" iM DONE.